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Why Your Kids Need to Help (And How I Can Help You Train Them!)

  • Writer: Ellie Azerad
    Ellie Azerad
  • Mar 10
  • 4 min read

Hey Frum Minimalists! 👋


As parents, we often juggle a million things—work, housework, kids’ activities, and so much more. But there’s one thing that often gets overlooked in all the busyness: teaching our kids to be responsible, independent, and contribute to the household.


If you're like many of my students, you’ve probably noticed that your kids aren’t exactly running to grab a broom or fold their laundry without being asked a hundred times. 🧹👕


Sound familiar? You’re not alone, and I get it. It’s hard to find the time to sit down and train your kids when you’ve got so many things on your plate. But trust me, getting them involved isn’t just about keeping your house cleaner—it’s about building habits, creating independence, and making life a little bit easier for everyone!


The Hidden Power of Teaching Kids to Help

Let’s talk about why it matters that your kids help around the house.

  1. It builds responsibility. When kids start doing chores—whether it’s making their bed, helping with dishes, cleaning the bathroom, or cleaning their room—they learn what it means to contribute to a team. This is a life skill that will serve them beyond the household.

  2. It fosters independence. Kids who help with housework become more self-sufficient. They learn to take care of themselves, and when they’re older, they’ll know how to manage their own spaces, cook, clean, and organize without needing constant reminders.

  3. It reduces stress for you. Have you ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of the entire home on your shoulders? 🤦‍♀️ Teaching your kids to pitch in lightens your load, reduces your stress, and creates a more balanced home environment where everyone shares the responsibility.

  4. It teaches them about teamwork. When your kids know they’re an essential part of the family and household upkeep, it brings everyone together.

  5. It builds a sense of accomplishment. Kids love to feel like they’ve done something helpful. When they’re given a task to do, whether it’s cleaning up after dinner or organizing a closet, they feel proud of themselves—and that's HUGE for their self-esteem.


But Here’s the Problem...

You might be thinking: "Sounds great, but my kids just don’t want to help! They’re too busy, too lazy, or they forget—how do I actually get them to pitch in without constant nagging?"


I totally get it! As a parent, you’ve probably had these thoughts running through your head:

  • "I ask them to do their chores, but they always forget or drag their feet."

  • "They don’t take it seriously, and it ends up being more work for me."

  • "Why do I have to be the one reminding them all the time?"


Does that sound familiar? If so, I’ve got good news for you.


It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way.

With the right tools and strategies, you can train your kids to help more—and even enjoy it. Yes, you read that right: enjoy it!


That’s exactly why I created my Raising Minimalist Kids course—a two-part workshop designed to help you empower your kids to take responsibility, pitch in around the house, and become more self-sufficient.


What You'll Learn in the 'Raising Minimalist Kids' Course

In this workshop, I’ll teach you:

  1. How to get your kids to help without nagging: I’ll walk you through the exact strategies I use to train kids to take responsibility for their own space—no more repeating yourself a million times!

  2. How to set expectations and stick to them: You’ll learn how to create clear, simple systems for your kids that actually stick. This way, you won’t have to be the "chore police" all the time.

  3. How to make chores fun: Yes, really! It’s all about creating positive associations with housework so that kids actually enjoy contributing to the home. I’ll show you how to make tasks like cleaning the bathroom or folding towels something your kids can look forward to.

  4. How to teach your kids to be responsible for their bedrooms and laundry: In this course, we dive deep into how you can train your kids to change their bed linens, organize their rooms, and manage their laundry—without you having to do it all!

  5. How to make minimalism work for your kids: Minimalism isn’t just for adults! I'll share how to teach your kids to value simple, organized spaces, so that they don’t just clean up for the sake of it—but understand the value of creating a calm, clutter-free environment.


Why This Course is a Game Changer

If you’ve been struggling with your kids not helping enough around the house, this course will be your lifeline. I’ll show you how to:

  • Create clear boundaries and expectations for your kids.

  • Simplify household tasks in a way that works for their age and interests.

  • Transform your home into a place where everyone contributes—creating less stress for you and more teamwork within your family.


Not only will your kids help more, but they’ll actually take pride in their responsibilities. Imagine a home where everyone pitches in, and you get to sit back and relax knowing that things are taken care of. Sounds like a dream, right?


What Parents Are Saying...

I’ve had so many students share how this course has been transformational for them. Here's what a few of them have said:

  • "My kids used to resist doing chores all the time, but now they actually ask what they can do to help. It’s made such a difference in our home!" – Miriam S.

  • "I thought my kids would never take responsibility for their rooms, but after taking this course, they’ve stepped up! It’s like night and day." – Rachel B.

  • "I used to be the one doing everything—laundry, cleaning, organizing—but now my kids are taking charge. This course has made me feel so much more relaxed!" – Esther W.


Don’t Wait—Start Training Your Kids Today!

If you’re ready to stop the endless nagging and start seeing real results, then join me in the Raising Minimalist Kids course today. This is the solution to those pain points you've been struggling with, and trust me—it’s life-changing for both you and your kids.


Ready to empower your kids and create a home that works for everyone? 

Your minimalist journey doesn’t stop with you—it’s a family effort. And with the right tools, you can build a home of responsibility, simplicity, and peace. Let me help you get there!!


Warmly,

Ellie

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