Embracing Minimalism with a Newborn: Debunking Baby Essentials
I often get asked if it’s possible to continue being minimal when you have a newborn at home. Since newborns and babies come with all the stuff, it seems challenging.
However, I am happy to report that not only is it possible, but it is also the best idea ever to become a minimalist or be really selective about what you let into your home when you have a baby.
In my course and book, I emphasize the importance of a home that can run on its own without getting chaotic, even at its worst. Each floor in your home should take no longer than 20 minutes to tidy.
After a baby, everything could get a little chaotic, but with systems in place and minimalized possessions, it's very doable.
Debunking Common Baby Essentials:
1.Traditional Changing Table:
Common Belief: Many believe that a dedicated changing table is essential.
Debunking: A changing pad on top of a dresser or a bed works just as well. You can save space and repurpose furniture you already have.
2. Common Belief: Some argue that warm wipes are essential for a baby's comfort.
Debunking: Babies adapt to room temperature quickly. A wipe warmer is an unnecessary expense and takes up space.
3. Specialized Baby Detergent:
Common Belief: Baby clothes require a special detergent to be gentle on their sensitive skin.
Debunking: Most babies do well with a fragrance-free, hypoallergenic detergent. There's no need for a separate detergent exclusively for baby clothes.
4. Crib Bedding Sets:
Common Belief: Coordinated crib sets with bumper pads are a must for the nursery.
Debunking: Bumper pads are a safety hazard, and babies don't need decorative bedding. A fitted crib sheet is all you need for a safe sleep environment.
5. Special Baby Food Processor:
Common Belief: Specialized baby food processors are crucial for making homemade baby food.
Debunking: A regular blender or food processor can do the job just fine. There's no need for a separate appliance.
6. Diaper Genie:
Common Belief: A specialized diaper disposal system is necessary to control odors.
Debunking: Regular trash cans with tight-fitting lids work just as well. Emptying it frequently is the key to managing odors.
Common Belief: Many parents believe that a baby bouncer or swing is crucial for keeping the baby entertained.
Debunking: While these can be helpful, they are not essential. A blanket on the floor or a play gym can offer the same sensory stimulation and playtime.
8. Fancy Baby Blankets:
Common Belief: Adorable, high-end baby blankets are often seen as a must-have for comfort and style.
Debunking: Babies don't need expensive blankets. Simple, soft, and easily washable blankets are more practical and serve the same purpose.
Common Belief: Specialized baby towels with hoods are thought to be essential for wrapping up a baby after a bath.
Debunking: Regular soft towels work just as well. There's no need to invest in separate towels solely for the baby.
1o. Baby Hangers:
Common Belief: Tiny hangers designed for baby clothes are seen as essential for organizing the nursery closet.
Debunking: Regular-sized hangers can accommodate baby clothes just fine. Using the ones you already have saves space and resources.
11. Changing Table:
Common Belief: A dedicated changing table is often considered a must-have for convenient diaper changes.
Debunking: You can save both space and money by opting for a changing pad on top of a dresser or bed. This multi-functional approach not only serves the purpose of changing diapers but also eliminates the need for a separate piece of furniture, making your nursery or baby space more versatile.
12. Swing:
Common Belief: Baby swings are believed to be essential for soothing and entertaining a fussy baby.
Debunking: While swings can be helpful, they are not a must-have. Many babies find comfort in other soothing methods, and having a swing is not a guarantee that your baby will love it. Consider space-saving alternatives like a baby bouncer or simply holding and rocking your baby, which can be just as effective.
13. Infant Crib vs. Stroller Bassinet Attachment:
Common Belief: Some parents feel the need for a separate infant crib, even if the stroller comes with a bassinet attachment.
Debunking: Modern strollers with bassinet attachments are designed to be safe and comfortable for your baby to sleep in. If you have limited space or are often on the go, relying on the stroller bassinet as your baby's primary sleeping space is a practical choice. Having a full-sized crib may become redundant, especially during the early months when the bassinet attachment is sufficient for your baby's needs.
14. Excessive Baby Clothing:
Common Belief: The fear of a baby running out of clothes often leads to an overabundance of baby clothing.
Debunking: Babies grow at an astonishing rate, and their tiny outfits are quickly outgrown. Storing an excess of clothing not only takes up valuable space but can also lead to items being forgotten or outgrown before they're even worn. Instead, opt for a minimalist wardrobe, focusing on a few versatile pieces for each stage of development. Mix and match items to create adorable outfits, and consider laundry frequency to ensure your baby always has clean, comfortable clothes.
15. Elaborate Baby Toys:
Common Belief: Having a large collection of elaborate toys is essential for a baby's development.
Debunking: Babies are often fascinated by simple, everyday objects. You don't need an abundance of complex toys. Household items like wooden spoons or fabric textures can provide just as much stimulation. Babies often find joy in exploring different textures and sounds.
By challenging these supposed baby essentials, we realize that embracing minimalism with a newborn not only saves space and money but also contributes to a more organized and stress-free environment. Prioritizing functionality over unnecessary items ensures that your home remains organized and clutter-free even in the midst of baby-related chaos.
-Ellie
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